Grieving for your loss
Websites
A Bed for My Heart - A place to rest your grieving heart and let its truth spill outside the covers.
Alive Alone - For bereaved parents whose only child or all children have died. This site provides a self-help network and newsletter to promote communication and healing.
Baby Steps - Named after the baby steps that form the long and difficult road to recovery from the loss of a child.
Bereaved Parents of the USA (BPUSA) - Offers support, care, and compassion for bereaved parents, siblings, and grandparents.
Buzzy Bee’s - help other parents who have lost a child with support financially and emotionally
Center for Loss in Multiple Birth - Supports parents who have experienced the death of one or more twins or higher multiples at any time from conception through birth, infancy and childhood.
Centering Corporation - A non-profit organization dedicated to providing education and resources for the bereaved, including bereaved parents and siblings.
Comfort Zone Camp - A nonprofit camp for siblings and children (age 7-17) coping with the loss of a sibling or parent.
Dougy Center for Grieving Children - Provides support in a safe place where children, teens and their families grieving a death can share their experiences as they move through their grief process.
Ectopic Pregnancy Trust - Established to raise awareness of ectopic pregnancies amongst women of childbearing age, the medical profession and the general public.
Facts About Miscarriage - Offers information and support for those experiencing or who have experienced a miscarriage.
Grief Watch/Perinatal Loss - Offers spiritual, emotional and other support to persons who are grieving through bereavement resources, memorial items, and links. The site and its resources are all created by, for, or in memory of someone who has gone through the process of perinatal loss or bereavement.
Group B Strep Association - Dedicated to the fight against GBS infection by serving the public as a resource of information and support.
Griefnet - Offers e-mail support groups for the bereaved including parents, siblings, and grandparents. It also offers a wide variety of bereavement related content including a comprehensive resource guide of bereavement organizations and a sister Web site for bereaved children.
Glow In The Woods - For parents of lost babies and potential of all kinds. In the beginning you stagger, disoriented, through this storm. We want to be a glow through the trees, a golden refuge of log and glass.
Hayden’s Helping Hands - Hayden’s Helping Hands assists Oregon families after the birth of a stillborn baby by paying for a portion or all of their hospital delivery medical expenses.
INCIID - The InterNational Council on Infertility Information Dissemination, a nonprofit organization that helps individuals and couples explore their family-building options. INCIID provides current information and immediate support regarding the diagnosis, treatment, and prevention of infertility and pregnancy loss, and offers guidance to those considering adoption or child-free lifestyles.
Loss of All in Multiple Birth Support - Closed Facebook support group for those who have had a complete loss of multiples (twins, triplets, quadruplets or higher). If you are having problems joining, email the moderator for assistance: cynthia.jenks@gmail.com
Maya’s Wings Foundation - IVF Resources - Support, Outcomes, Advocacy, and Research
Mommies Enduring Neonatal Death (MEND) - A Christian not-for-profit corporation whose purpose is to reach out to those who have lost a child due to miscarriage, stillbirth or early infant death through support groups, a quarterly newsletter and Web site.
Mothers in Support and Sympathy (MISS) Foundation - A non-profit organization providing immediate and ongoing support to grieving families and caregivers.
National Share Pregnancy & Infant Loss Support, Inc. - Share serves those who have experienced the death of a baby due to early pregnancy loss, stillbirth, or in the first few months of life.
National SIDS/Infant Death Resource Center = Provides information services and technical assistance on Sudden Infant Death Syndrome and related topics with a goal of promoting an understanding of SIDS and providing comfort to those affected by SIDS through information sharing.
Nora Madelyn Fund for Infant and Child Loss - An Oregon-based, non-profit fund that provides resources to families who have experienced pregnancy loss or the death of a child. Recognizing the emotional impact on medical professionals and caregivers who attend to these families, Nora’s Fund also provides support and educational resources to assist these professionals and caregivers in their work.
Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep - Through its nationwide network of professional photographers, Now I Lay Me Down to Sleep will arrange a tasteful private sitting at the hospital with no charge for any services or pictures.
Resolve: The National Infertility Association - Provides education, advocacy and support for women and men facing infertility, including a help line, a physician referral service, and a monthly magazine.
Silent Grief - Meant to be a safe place of healing, support, and hope during a time of grief, loneliness, and depression. Includes articles, forums and other resources of Christian-based support.
Still Standing - A real magazine for bereaved parents “who just like any other community and walk of life” want to feel normal, connected by a common thread. Though tragic, it is somewhat comforting that we don’t walk these dark paths alone.
Twinless Twins Support Group - Supports twins and other multiples who suffer from the loss of their twin through death or estrangement. is an e-mail list specifically for those who have lost all their children in a multiple birth, whether their loss is recent or years ago.
Willamette Valley Pregnancy & Infant Loss - Providing conversation and support for those in Oregon’s Willamette Valley who lost a little one much too soon. Our in-person support group meets from 7-9 pm on the second Thursday of each month at the Ike Box in downtown Salem, OR. For more information, contact Annie: 503-510-0417 annie@salembirthsupport.com
Books
Many of these books are available through Amazon, and/or Grief Watch:
After The Death of A Child: Living with Loss Through the Years - by Ann K. Finkbeiner
The Bereaved Parent - by Harriet Sarnoff Schiff
Choosing to See: A Journey of Struggle and Hope - by Mary Beth Chapman
Empty Cradle, Broken Heart: Surviving the Death of Your Baby - by Deborah L. Davis, PhD
A Grace Disguised: How the Soul Grows through Loss - by Jerry Sittser
A Grandparent’s Sorrow - by Pat Schwiebert
Help, Comfort and Hope After Losing Your Baby in Pregnancy or the First Year - by Hannah Lothrop
A Memory Album (for the loss of a very special baby) - by Pat Schweibert
Miscarriage After Infertility - by Margaret Comerford Fredal, RN and Carrie Semelsberger, RN
Miscarriage: Women Sharing from the Heart - by Marie Allen
Our Stories of Miscarriage: Healing with Words - by Rachel Faldet and Karen Fitton
Pregnancy After a Loss: A Guide to Pregnancy After a Miscarriage, Stillbirth or Infant Death - by Carol Cirulli Lanham
The Secret of the Dragonfly - by Gayle Shaw-Cramer
A Silent Love: Personal Stories of Coming to Terms with Miscarriage - by Adrienne Ryan
A Silent Sorrow: Pregnancy Loss & Guidance and Support for You and Your Family - by Ingrid Kohn, et al
Someone Came Before You - by Pat Schweibert (for children who came after a baby that has died)
Still To Be Born - by Pat Schweibert and Paul Kirk (for deciding about subsequent pregnancies)
Strong and Tender - by Pat Schwiebert (for fathers)
Tear Soup - by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen
Too Soon A Memory - by Pat Schweibert (for miscarriages) (also available in Spanish)
Trying Again: A Guide to Pregnancy After Miscarriage, Stillbirth and Infant Loss - by Ann Douglas, et al
We Were Gonna Have a Baby, But We Had an Angel Instead - by Pat Schwiebert (for children)
When a Baby Dies: A Handbook for Healing and Helping - by Rana K. Limbo and Sara Rich Wheeler
When the Bough Breaks: Forever After the Death of a Son or Daughter - by Judith R. Bernstein
When Hello Means Goodbye - by Pat Schwiebert and Chuck DeKlyen (also available in Spanish)
When Your Friend’s Child Dies: A Guide to Being a Thoughtful and Caring Friend - by Julane Grant
You Are the Mother of All Mothers - by Angela Miller